She speaks, she sings, she shares: She's Ms. Wheelchair America
by Tara Wood
For years, when you drove into Pamplico, S.C., you saw a sign reading, "Welcome
to Pamplico."
Now, anyone entering the small town sees signs that proclaim, "Home of Nicki
Ard, Ms. Wheelchair America 2001."
Ard, who has spinal muscular atrophy, was crowned at the Ms. Wheelchair America
Pageant in Fort Lauderdale, Fla., last summer, and is spending a year touring
the country as an advocate for wheelchair users.
Ard received the national honor as a pageant rookie — just eight weeks after
being crowned Ms. Wheelchair South Carolina in June. She competed for the title
against 25 other women, many of whom had almost a year of experience wearing
their states' crowns.
"The night I won was one of the most humbling experiences because every girl
there deserved it," Ard said. "I mean it was amazing just being among a group
of women who all had the same goal in mind: to overcome the barriers that we
face every day."
The months since she was crowned have been really busy, Ard said, and so will
the remainder of her term.
Ard, 29, said her schedule will include "as much in-state work as possible," and
she'll capitalize on being the first Ms. Wheelchair America from South Carolina
in the program's 28-year history.
She's given one round trip per month by sponsor American Airlines so she can
travel to speaking engagements and other activities. Her agenda at the end of
2000 ranged from being the grand marshal of her hometown Christmas parade, to
speaking to schoolchildren in Dallas, to attending a Ski for Life competition
in South Dakota.
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| Ard was all smiles when she was crowned last summer |
Not Your Typical Pageant
For those who wrinkle their noses at the idea of pageants, Ard assures that Ms.
Wheelchair America is a far cry from the traditional beauty-centered
competitions.
The mission of the pageant is "to provide an opportunity for women of
achievement who utilize wheelchairs to successfully educate and advocate for
individuals with disabilities," she said.
"We are a totally different organization," Ard said. "Physical appearance is not
a heavily weighted thing. You're judged on accomplishments. You're judged on
your public skills, your achievements and the way you get out and make things
happen."
The pageant lasts almost a week, and judges scrutinize the contestants through
personal interviews, platform speech presentations and on-stage interviews.
Marital status isn't a consideration. Each contestant must use a wheelchair for
daily mobility and be a U.S. citizen between ages 21 and 60.
One of the questions Ard had to answer was, if she won the Ms. Wheelchair
America title, what would be her major goal?
She replied: "A lot of people see wheelchairs and think 'can't.' My goal is make
them think 'can.'"
She added, "It is important to overcome structural barriers — all that is very
important — but my biggest thing is to let people see the potential that those
of us in chairs have. Then once they see the potential and what that person has
to offer society, they're going to want to fix the other stuff," such as
providing ramps and other ways to make structures accessible, Ard said.
Ard said she was amazed by the caliber and achievements of her co-contestants,
and noted in her acceptance speech that she'd never seen "so many women with so
much guts" who were working to be positive examples.
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| Ard has made many public appearances |
Spreading a Message Through Song
Ard's crowning is especially big news in Pamplico, a town of about 1,300 about
an hour from Myrtle Beach. But it's not the first time she's garnered national
attention.
Ard is also a successful contemporary Christian singer who's spent the last 12
years traveling as a solo concert vocalist and motivational speaker.
She established the Music Ministry of Nicki Ard in 1986, but her gospel talents
are rooted in her childhood. She sang her first solo in church at age 6, and
gained musical inspiration from hours spent watching her mother direct the
church choir as Nicki crawled among the pews.
In 1988 she recorded her first album, "From Nicki, With Love," and her second in
1999. "Walk With Me" has received much critical acclaim, and a single from it,
her version of "Will the Circle Be Unbroken?," was voted one of the top 50
songs of 1999 by the Beach, Rhythm and Blues song chart in North Carolina.
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| Her role as Ms. Wheelchair America has included live
performances |
Ard has made about 1,500 appearances singing and speaking at churches, schools,
civic group gatherings and meetings of other organizations nationwide. About 20
of her concerts have been broadcast via local television and radio, and she's
performed the national anthem at several public events.
She expects a packed schedule in 2001, which at press time included a possible
performance at the presidential inauguration.
"I don't think I've yet turned any organizations away, because I feel like if
there's someone there who needs to see the positive things in life, then I'm
willing to do that," Ard said.
Ard had to consider the demands of her performance schedule when she entered the
Ms. Wheelchair America contest and pageant judges asked, "If you won, could you
handle the challenge?"
Ard told them she wouldn't give up her music and thought it could mesh quite
nicely with representing the pageant. So far, that's how things have happened,
she said.
"Everywhere I go to speak, people say, 'Will you sing, too?' It's been really
neat how the two have incorporated themselves together," Ard said.
Her religious faith is usually the central topic when she sings and speaks,
though she tempers that somewhat when she's speaking as Ms. Wheelchair America.
"But I have to let people know when they see me that I am here because I have
faith, and I am here because God has purpose for my life. It's just something
that I have to share," she said.
Keeping Active, Staying Healthy
A theme Ard weaves through her singing and speaking is the importance of
believing in yourself, and how she lives her life to show that the human spirit
can overcome almost anything.
That attitude has propelled her since youth. She took dance lessons (she sat on
the edge of her power wheelchair and danced tap, ballet and jazz), was a
cheerleader, played basketball and participated in marching band in high
school. Following high school, Ard attended Francis Marion University in
Florence, S.C., and graduated with a bachelor's degree in television
broadcasting with a double minor in English and French.
Ard believes her achievements are simply the result of pushing herself — a
motivation from within fueled by stubbornness, she said.
"I'm a very goal-oriented person," Ard said. "The things I've done are just
things that I've set for myself. It's not something that I'm out to prove to
anybody else, it's just for Nicki. I am very challenge-driven and very
hard-headed."
Ard believes her active lifestyle has been the key factor in keeping her healthy
while living with SMA. The disorder was diagnosed at age 4.
She's had few health complications resulting from her disease, although
scoliosis caused her to lose full function of her left lung. Her singing gives
her right lung plenty of exercise, and Ard believes it's great respiratory
therapy.
Ard has become acquainted with many other families who are affected by SMA, and
she knows how lucky she is.
"We have no clue why my case has been the way it has. I guess I have just been
blessed with something that needs to be used," Ard said.
In fact, she considers her life with SMA to be a gift, something she made clear
to the Ms. Wheelchair America judges.
"I told the judges, 'You can think I'm saying this for brownie points, but I
wouldn't change it if I could. It's made me who I am,'" Ard said. "I've been
able to do the things and touch the people I have because I am this way.
"I was given this life for a reason. I don't dwell on the 'what ifs.' I just
take it for what I am and go with it."  |